Mom Buys College Son a Home Instead of Paying for Student Housing

This as-told-to essay is based on conversations with LeAnne Carswell, 51, a real estate agent in South Carolina who decided to buy a home for her son to live in while studying at Clemson University instead of paying his rent. The conversation has been edited for length and clarity.

My son started at a sister school of Clemson University in his freshman year. So he did his first year at that tech school, and then Clemson took him in as a sophomore this year, but he lived on Clemson’s campus.

He was in a dorm with three roommates. I don’t remember how much room and board was, but I know it was a waste of money because we were just throwing it away. [Editor’s note: According to Clemson University, estimated housing costs for the 2025-2026 school year are $8,904.]

He came to me last fall and said, “We’ve got to start finding where I’m going to live in the fall of 2025.”

I thought that was so far away, but he said everybody’s going and looking. So all three of his roommates went and looked at a new high-rise near Clemson that’s the trendy place to go. It was between $1,000 and $1,200 a month — and he’d still have other roommates.

I said, “I’m not paying that.” So we started searching around for somewhere to buy rather than just wasting that money.

I had heard of other people owning properties while their kids were at school. I actually just got finished selling a home where the parents of a senior at Anderson University had owned it, and she had rented out three or four rooms. In that particular situation, she made a little bit of money.

I expect to at least make my money back

About 10 minutes from Clemson is a little city called Pendleton, South Carolina.

There were some new townhomes being built there. A Clemson soccer coach had gotten a new job somewhere in Texas and was leaving after having only owned the townhome for five months — she even had it all furnished. She bought it for $225,000, and we bought it from her for $227,000 in cash, fully furnished.

It has three bedrooms, two-and-a-half bathrooms, a one-car garage, and 1,523 square feet. All three bedrooms and a laundry room are upstairs.

We closed at the end of February, so it sat there for a while. School was still going on, so for a month, my son went back and forth between his place in Clemson and the townhome. And then he came home for two months, and we just left it vacant.

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His friends went off and rented the trendy $1,000 to $1,200 a month unit somewhere else — even though I told him to tell them we’re buying something and to not do anything yet. But they all were scared they were going to be homeless.

Me being in real estate, I just kind of knew what was going on in the market. I thought, “We’re going to slow walk this.”

We did end up renting one room to a kid my son went to high school with who’s going to Clemson for $775 a month.

Then there’s the smaller bedroom, which we hadn’t done anything with this year. I don’t know if we would be able to rent it out this semester. Maybe in the spring that would be something that they could do, but I don’t know that I would get as much because it’s the smallest of the rooms.

I don’t know what I’m going to do with the townhome once he graduates. I’ve got a sister who’s got two boys, so maybe I’ll sell it to her, but we’ll see what happens.

I expect to profit or at least break even once I sell it. I wasn’t looking to lose $12,000 a year for the next three or four years — who knows how long it’s going to take him to get through school?

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